Want to know if your ex wants you back… why? Doesn’t ex mean in the past, it is over, we are finished, I don’t love you anymore, or goodbye I’m moving on. When a relationship has run its course you have to learn to let go, but saying that if there’s a glimmer of hope it can work and it’s what you both want go for it. Nevertheless before getting back together give yourself time to think about the reason why you split up in the first place. Was infidelity (cheating spouse/partner) the cause? It’s hard to get over something like this and for some the past will come back to haunt them and misery remain in the relationship. There’s no guarantee the road ahead will be hunky dory if your partner cheated on you whilst you were together. Not everyone can forgive and forget.
How to tell if your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend wants you back. If your ex partner is playing hard to get and not letting on they want you back, don’t mess up and make a fool of yourself trying to find out. If this person loves you the signs will show. Whatever you do don’t misread these signs because you’ll never live it down.
Signs Your Ex Wants You Back
Usually, couples that split move on and go their own way. However, if your ex sticks around showing genuine interest in you, then they still care.
Non-verbal communication: It’s definitely a sign when your ex can’t take their eyes off you, but the thing is, is it good or bad sign? Bad sign: They stare because they believe they had a lucky escape. Good Sign: They watch realizing how close they have come to losing you forever. If you’re every move is constantly monitored by your ex and with a smile, take this as a positive as opposed to negative. Keep eye contact as it increases the chances of getting close. If there’s distance between you, lets say in a night club and they slowly edge towards you, allow them time at your side as its likely the moment the sorry will come.
Hanging around: The law of average when two people break up they’ll bump into each other at sometime. But when that sometime turns into all the time, and in places you least expect to see your ex, then its a sign they’re not giving up on getting back with you. Don’t accuse your ex of being a stalker just because they turn up everywhere you happen to be. What this means is, they want to be close and protect you, but will they admit to this if confronted. Some will bottle up their feelings and no one is any the wiser. Now its been proven your ex still cares through their stalking antics, YOU need to wade in and get them to open up. Why let the relationship suffer as result of his or her stubbornness when your future happiness may depend on it.
Meeting: If your ex asks to meet up for a coffee and a chat give them the benefit of the doubt and agree to the meeting. They obviously want to talk – but what about?. Don’t panic that it be something bad they have to say. What other reason when it’s over between the pair of you could your ex possibly have for wanting to talk, other than wanting to make up. If it’s a spouse matter then you panic. Divorce can be nasty business with ongoing bitchy conversations and arguments over who is getting what when the house sells. Marriage dilemmas as such wont apply to you of course because you’re single, well for the time being anyway. Your relationship status will depend on the outcome of the meeting. If your ex offers to buy you coffee its a sign they’re missing being with you.
Apology: If the split was due to a petty argument where things were said in the heat of the moment, don’t dig your heels into the ground when they come by to say sorry. It takes two to tango. Maybe you said things you regret, so if there’s call for you to admit to being in the wrong, own up. An apology is a sign your ex wants you back. If it wasn’t why else would they come suck-holing.
Other signs: If your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend talks about you to friends and family asking of your wellness and wanting to know what you’re doing with your life since you broke up, don’t see it as being nosy, but more a sign they can’t let you go.